My 10 Rules of
Success
1.) Know Yourself
Knowing yourself first is very important, before
you can effectively identify your goal you must first acknowledge your
strengths and weaknesses. For you to be able to perform your plans for your
goals you must be able to identify what you are capable is of and what’s not.
With this you will be able to set your goals perfectly according to your
abilities. You can do more and achieve more if you know your strengths as you
can maximize its utility. Also, it is very important to know your weaknesses so
that you’ll know where and how to improve.
2.) Believe in yourself
Never ever doubt what you can achieve. Believe
that you can achieve your goals. Believing in oneself is creating will, the
desire. The desire to be successful is believing nothing can stop you from
achieving your goals. If you want it, you will get it.
3.) Don't let
the limitation of others limit you
Accept negative comments or thoughts. You can
never please everybody. But more
importantly do not allow others to define who you are, do not let them define
what you can do or set limitations as what you can do or achieve. You are the
captain of yourself. The only limitation you can have is your limitation of how
much you can dream.
4) Identify what your passion is
Knowing your passion is one of the primary step
before setting your goals and your plans. You cannot achieve your goals if you
are not doing what you are passionate of. Doing something you are passionate
about motivates you to do more than 100% of your effort. You can achieve
maximum efficiency and focus if you are passionate on what you are doing as you
feel happy when you are doing something you are passionate about.
5.) Never settle for less when you can do more
The most problem I noticed to some people is
that they stop achieving and striving more if they got to the level wherein
they are already comfortable of what they have achieved so far. You see this is
the often mistake people do. When they get comfortable on their success, they
stop. They have limited their selves of doing more and doing more amazing
things just because they have already attain a level of success they are
comfortable with.
6.) Never to be frustrated by failures
Nobody’s perfect and so everything’s not going
to work out well all the time. There will always be ups and downs in life. The
important thing is you should be prepare for what’s to come whether it be
failure or success. You should learn to accept failures and learn from those
failures to be stronger and smarter the next time. Failing something doesn’t
mean it’s the end of you already. Anything’s possible as long as you set these
failures to challenges you have yet to overcome, then you can be wiser.
7.) Anything is possible
Nothing is impossible, you can set any goals you
want, and sky is the limit. But again, everything is possible, you should
prepare yourself for the worst as well. Though the good thing about it is that
still, anything is possible. You might fail the first, second time or couple of
times but there’s still a possibility you will get successful. Having this in
mind is setting yourself the positivity you need in your struggles for your
success.
8.)
Be the
devil’s advocate
Whenever you plan, or something’s up, always
argue with yourself. Though you keep a positive mind on you should still be the
devil’s advocate. In this way you can prepare yourself for worst case scenarios
and formulate beforehand contingency plans for the risks or issues that may
come. Having a negative mind is not really that bad after all. This is one way
of predicting out comes and preparing for what’s possibly worse to come.
9.) Focus is the key
When you set goals, you should be passionate and
focused about it. When you are focused, you can set all your time, effort,
energy, dedication etc. to it. In this
way, not only you are maximizing your capabilities but also you are maximizing
your success rate.
10.) Network with people
At the end of the day it is not really always
all about the money, but the relationship you had with people. Having good
relationship with people can greatly help you in your success. Also, you can do
more and get to your goals faster if you accept or ask some assistance from
your friends, or the network of people you had.